The Impolite Canadian: Why Playing Nice Is Costing Us the Future

5 Star Review

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Editorial Book Review:

By Dar Dowling

Canada's politeness is one of those national traits that gets treated as self-evidently good, the kind of thing that ends up on tourism campaigns and international reputation surveys without anyone stopping to ask what it might be costing. Kumaran Nadesan stopped to ask, and the answer he arrived at is sharp, specific, and genuinely uncomfortable for anyone who has been nodding along to the polite Canada narrative for decades.

Reading this book feels like finally hearing someone say out loud what a lot of Canadians have been quietly thinking. Nadesan is not interested in being provocative for its own sake. He is interested in being honest about a pattern he has watched play out across fifteen years in Ontario's public service, international trade missions, and the entrepreneurial world: that quiet deference, however charming on postcards, has a real price tag. Brilliant people leaving for capital and validation abroad. Diplomatic hesitation where boldness was needed. A country that keeps waiting for permission to lead on a global stage where nobody is handing it out.

What makes the book land with real force is the immigrant perspective running through it. Nadesan arrived in Canada carrying none of the cultural assumptions that make deference feel natural, and that outsider vantage point gives him a clarity about Canadian habits that people raised inside them often can't access. His argument for a new kind of Canadian identity, one rooted in immigrant boldness, civic courage, and the willingness to compete unapologetically, is both personal and genuinely persuasive.

He is careful, and this matters, to distinguish between politeness and passivity, between respect and avoidance. This is not a call to become aggressive or to abandon the decency Canadians rightly value. It is a call to stop mistaking silence for virtue.

For Canadians who sense something is slipping and aren't sure what to do about it, this book is exactly the kind of challenge that actually helps.

About the Author

Kumaran Nadesan

Kumaran Nadesan is the Co-Founder and Group Chief Executive Officer of 369 Global, a Canadian group of companies focused on skills training, media, and global talent mobility. 

A former civil servant in the Ontario Public Service, he has led initiatives in policy and innovation, partnerships, growth, and intergovernmental affairs. Kumaran has participated in international trade missions and is a vocal advocate for everyday Canadian leadership. 

Named a 2018 CivicAction DiverseCity Fellow, 2020 Established Professional of the Year by the Canadian Tamil Professionals Association, 2024 Inspirational Leader of the Year Award at the Canadian SME National Business Awards, and a participant in the 2026 Governor General's Canadian Leadership Conference, he brings a rare mix of public insight and entrepreneurial drive.

Kumaran lives in Brampton, Ontario, with his wife and two children.